Oh dear Lord, I need a man! And it's not for sex! It's 'cause I have a mouse in my house!

I made this discovery last night and I honestly don't think I've ever felt so unhappily single in my life.

There I was at about 11.30pm, cleansing my face in the bathroom, when the next thing this rodent goes scurrying past my feet (eeewww!) and behind the toilet.

I screamed and nobody heard

I instantly screamed, although God knows why. Who was going to acknowledge my horror? Nobody, that's who!

I live alone. I am a female living alone. And when a mouse enters the building, I'm sorry but this female wants a man.

If that makes me sound like a pathetic and helpless woman, well I don't care. Right now I am pathetic and helpless and it's all because of this tiny creature who has freaked me out so much I had to spend the night on the couch.

I've had to do a man's job

Now I've had to go and buy traps and cheese and put them down in the hope of catching the little bugger. Never mind all that women's lib stuff, this is a man's job – and I've had to do it!

Meanwhile, what am I to do if I go home later and find a mouse's corpse? The thought of having to dispose of it is making me feel faint.

I may ask Old Flame to help me

I'm still meeting Old Flame this evening and I'm thinking of asking him for his help. And that doesn't mean I'm now going to sleep with him by the way. The sex ban still stands, contrary to some readers' comments!

Not that I haven't gone out of my way to look my best for later. No need to let standards slip, I say.

I did brave the shower this morning (all the time praying the mouse wouldn't join me) and then made myself look as alluring as possible, despite the fact that I only slept for about three very fitful hours.

 

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  • Nov-4 - MagnoleaMaybe what I'm saying sounds a bit harsh but I'm only approaching this as if she was a friend or family member who was in this position and feeling confused. Strictly speaking it's none of my business of course, although it is a blog so it's not exactly private either. And I'm not trying to win female friends by betraying some stupid 'male honour code' online (not that I believe any of that kind of shite anyway). A friend of mine found out recently that her husband was cheating on her and it has absolutely devastated her. So I'm sorry if the truth hurts but I think it's a lot less cruel if men and women are just upfront and honest about what they want, and it's a much more mature, adult way of dealing with life. The facts as they appear to be are: Kitten is completely smitten by this guy (which is kinda disturbing given her obsession with a high-pants prat like Simon Cowell) and cannot or will not see that she is walking straight into a situation where she is just another notch on this dude's bedpost, even though she claims to have seen hard evidence that the guy is a complete player..I mean she SAW him with another chick only the week before, and now suddenly she finds him irrestistible again! Granted there's no reason why he shouldn't have been with anybody he wanted to be with as they weren't together at the time, but is it really any wonder blokes walk around thinking "treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen", sniggering over their pints and winking at each other? The lesson - and I've heard a lot of guys say this over the years - is the more women you sleep with, and the worse you treat them while you're doing it, the more women will respect you and want you. I've always found it somewhat astonishing that so many guys aspire to live this kind of life. Sadly, it appears to be true - but only for certain guys of course. So a minority of men are out there making life miserable for BOTH women and their male peers, who have to put up with the negative attitudes lots of...  Show Full Comment
  • Nov-4 - SbowQueenWell, I have to say I'd hate a rodent in my house but this is all a bit silly, really. Of all weeks, this is the one you just happen to see a mouse and there isn't another man in the city you could call, only this guy. I get the whole mouse thing but it's total bollocks that you have no-one to ask but him. Shag him sideways if you want but these stories are getting so tired. I think Mallory Towers have more realism in terms of chick issues. Yawn.
  • Oct-22 - LexiHmmm... Brendan thinks Kitten is Jesus.... now THATS the kinda dedication this woman needs!! Kit, you have found your man!!
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